Have you seen that man on television? Lucent with a luminous grin and fine trivial items lodged in his brandish home also packed with people- the archetype of mainstream success. Or, on the other hand, is that man on television surrounded by forged friendships feeling stressed, rethinking his life choices, and unsure of his meaning in life? I believe the second question reveals truth beyond accepted belief of success.
The press approaches success in a way that is false, brainwashing our good people and making them believe that achieving an aim such as having lots of none, being popular, and owning all of the latest technologies and fashions is the key to prosperity. This brainwashes people and can become toxic to everyone seeing that in reality this is not the case. True success depends on knowledge, respect, patience, and appreciation. All of which are traits that by human nature are genuinely challenging to gain, which almost made impossible by the media who repeatedly deceive us, decreasing our independence to increase their net.
The mainstream market would like us to believe that living an unnecessary egotistical life, involving nothing but the pursuit of money and fame will bring success and happiness. Unfortunately, this is not true. Money is only paper and is comparable to a new toyвЂ?fun while it is crisp and new, but dreadfully boring after a few hours of play. Money may buy convenience and comforts, but a person has to have more than superficial luxuries to create a uniform life. In-turn means money does help make life easier, but it does not make it better.
Money cannot make one scholarly or wise (Shims 5). That only comes with hard work and devoted study. Commitment cannot be forged by money. For example, money cannot help one forge a long term marriage. That only comes from love, respect, patience, integrity, and sacrifice. Enormous amounts of money will never teach courtesy or respect. This only comes with a good up-bringing and caring for others. I have never heard of money giving the gift of leadership or friendship or generosity. All these traits are essential to the aspects of a person’s successful life.
Success may be achievable but will not always have a price tag. Money is a distraction causing temptation and corruption. There is no elevator to success; you will have to take the stairs. Alike, fame is hardly a synonym for success. The attainment of fame is considered extremely successful. Mind numbing commercials that are continuously flaunted to Americans have become drilled into memory and habit, shifting the standard definition into something shameful (Welch 15). Success viewed today had been sadly advertised to represent fame and popularity.
This isn’t the case; people with the most popularity tend to have less confidence, talent, and freedom than those with a different view of success and have chosen to follow the compass of their hearts instead of our altered culture today. Tony Long, a Journalist, stated, “What is a hipster, after all, other than a successful slave to the dictates of pop culture police? ” A conformist locked in a current struggle to keep up with meaningless fads is the definition of a hipster. This view of success has already extinguished the originality in most Americans which in turn makes us all cookie cutter.
Contrary to popular myth, money and fame will not buy happiness or make you a successful person. Anyone can be successful and journey to fulfill their dreams and follow their hearts. When a person allows his mind to be held back by the media, becoming successful is an impossible task. Fortunately, there is a way to withdraw and stop this ongoing disgrace before all Americans end up like dolls. People must all throw away the lifestyle that they have been force fed and create a unique and better one.
Instead of having a goal to attain fame and popularity as a method to achieve the elusive success, Americans should reach for more effective solutions that aren’t quite as obvious at first glance. “If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life he imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. ” This is a famous quote poke by Henry David Thoreau ( Henry 3). Thoreau preaches to us the importance of creating step stones for ourselves that lead to what we truly want and believe in.
In addition, volunteering time and energy to good causes, like helping others, not only benefits your community, but will bring satisfaction (4). Moreover, helping yourself learn how to act respectively and admirably in tough times can make life smoother by helping to steer clear of conflicts and spark lifelong friendships. Ultimately, it is this type of thorough Judgment and premise that sets the truly successful people apart room the mediocre. As you may be wondering, “How do I accomplish success through all that work? Or “Will it be worth it to be successful? ” to answer this in brief: yes. It will not be easy, which nothing worthwhile is, but taking the road less traveled on is a noble goal. It will take some practice as it is compared to a fine motor skill that may only be learned. No one becomes successful overnight. With courage and hope our society can forget the medias wrong definition of success and work to reach true happiness by modeling respectful, appreciative, and patient people. This is the key to success.